The women you are dealing with in your personal life should not be 100% comfortable around you, ever. Boredom usually leads to late nights with Rosy Palm and her five sisters.
The point is to not come off as a d*ck, but going through life without saying no just to please everyone else is what we here in the real world call a cop out.
Questions, on the other hand, give people the option of saying no.
Rather than making a concrete suggestion, guys say, “Cool, well just let me know when you’re free to grab a drink.” or “Let me know whenever works for you.” By doing this, you’re reinforcing that you have no life outside of her and that you will be available whenever she wants.
And you’re making take charge of contacting you to plan a meetup.
With that said, stop apologizing all the damn time!